Monday, November 10, 2008
"Three years long" titled after a wonderful love story of my closest relative. Three years many things and surprises do happen. And although there are many obstacles ahead of them, they still manage to fight through their way and brave through the waves of storm. Thats how it struck the love between them and engaged their new chapter of their life.
He was someone who really good at using words to present himself and thats how he projected himself confidently. He fears no rejections and thats truly him being himself. You can say he might not be the good looking kind but he can be called the modern "cassanova". Although his way of catching a new date might be quite annoying to some, at least there is something good about him. He can be having many others but, the truth is he never cheated her and was faithful, devoted lover. Perhaps some don't understand him, but evryone have both a good and bad sides.
He met her during their school days, and it all started with a simple conversation and led to a fatal attraction that trigger him to have the passion and determine to get her. Well as long as one have a strong desire in something, you can never be a barrier to him, as nothing will stop him. She was a simple-looking girl, having an innocent look and contented face. Her expression shows to all that she is a kind hearted person and sociable person to talk to. They were in the same class back then, both having streaming for that year. Not really sure how he manages to win her heart, but i knew just then he sure will be able to do it. I believe that she was also attracted to him and obviously it's gonna take two hands to clap. So they went of and start off well. Like all normal couple, enjoying the feeling in love was so exciting. There is no explaination for love as the only way to deal with it is to feel it and drown into it.
Months and soon even a year came without them knowing and they were just so happy enjoying the happiness that they both benefits. Although quarrels are often, but that strengthen alot of understanding between and keep the growing stong for a better challenge ahead. As long as a relationship got trust, you will be even able to have opposite sex of friends freely and is hard to believe but the actually did it. It's not really easy to do so and trust me when i say this. Even though you can be all the time looking out for each other and staying close together often, as long as you are just away for that moment, your mind will play you upside down and you will start to predict and assume. So in fact thats how all fights actually started and the truth is nowadays people don't really trust each other. But they both really earn my respect, they did it and they also really got that pure trust between each other.
Seriously, they do not encounter common problems like jealous and unfaithful at all. The things they usually quarrel are just like how mature adults debates more of a mature way of dealing things in an adult manner. They don't quarrel over small things and thats how they really maintain it strong to go one so long ahead. Although three years to some is just like a short normal relationship, but i strong disagree as if you gonna make it to three years, its already a very good achivement in life and three years of experiences which is what you earn and gain. They both enjoy a group of common friends too thus making it much, much easier for them to spent both of their time together and at the same time with their friends as not to neglect them.
But after a really long and amazing three years, faded away was the reason of a turning point for both life. Perhaps you can say it's really pre-made it this way, and actually to be able to know and fall in love in this life time, it's something already more than enough to ask for. They didn't really probe much about what happen, but three years, it's not just love, its the effort and the already habit of having each other around. Of course, he cried, i didn't know much, and he also didn't tell his friend much. But everyone knows, everyone do get emotional at times, and no one really can understand unless you are in his shoes, we can do comforting, but it's still all in his hands again. he never wanted a broke up, is she in fact. But deep down, he never wanted to let her go, but he still have to let go. No point holding her tight, it will make her more restless and painful too. For the sake of her, he did so reluctantly. After about a few months, both got new relationship started.
They didn't really say much about each others relationship then. Maybe it's a better way not to mention it and that will be uncomfortable doing so.But the surprise here is that there are still contacting each other, really as good friends. They are able to conversate so normally and naturally and really just joke each other out. I was also shock at first, these two are really giving surprises time and again. I mean who would had expected that. But it's good and i feel happy for them, at least not losing contact for good like many other failure relationships. They still share problems with each other and pour out their sorrows to each other and thats really good to see that at least they are progressing well as good friends.
But, do you think he still look you as a friend, or more than that. He still love you of course but too bad you are still in a reltionship, and he will never ruined it up for your sake trust me. No matter how much he hated that guy, he will still feel helpless right in front of you. Weak and strengthless, or should i say you have melted his heart, and that really cause him to react this way. Everything for your sake and willing to stand by you like an unsung hero. Not playing as a villian, but an unseen angel, just contented to see you safe and happy. There is not much i can say about one loving someone deeply, but all i know is loving someone is really so unexpected and unexplainable. You will just be blinded by it and do everything without your will.
My next story is titled "Painless, no more" and it will debut next Monday 17th November 2008
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